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rjmamula
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Post subject: Who I want to be  Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2011 1:52 pm |
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During my trip to Michigan earlier this month, my mother and uncle were talking about one of my great grandfathers who died when I was an infant. I have seen a picture of him holding me but I do not remember him. They talked of how he always thought he could not do enouch for them. He would always but them ice cream and every little thing you did flattered him. When I heard that I said to myself, that is exactly the kind of person I want to be. Of course it is tough when you are struggling to take care of yourself. And the only root of selfishness in me is the fact that I am a sexual being and a partner is the only thing I ever really wanted for myself.
Please share your thoughts.
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Post subject: Re: Who I want to be Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2011 6:37 pm |
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Thats Ok RJ,
We were not meant to be alone, so its not selfish at all. I think its great you want to be a good person, but remember balance, you have to have time for yourself, you cant always be the one to give, and carry the load, you'll end up stressed, and worn thin. But its always good to be kind and loving to others.
Blessings
Elia
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Briganta
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Post subject: Re: Who I want to be Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 3:49 am |
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I enjoy helping people and doing things for them - it actually makes me feel good. I agree with Elia, though, that you need to take time for yourself and do things for yourself, even treat yourself. I went shopping for myself today, bought some sweaters (they were on sale) and jeans and pants - and, yeah, it feels good, lol.
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willow~moon
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Post subject: Re: Who I want to be Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 4:08 am |
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Greetings, RJ. I don’t think the need to find companionship is selfish – it’s simply a natural part of us being human. Your Great-Grandfather sounds very caring & considerate – I think maybe there is more of him in you than you imagine…
Bright Blessings
willow~moon
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Bell
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Post subject: Re: Who I want to be Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 6:04 am |
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It's wonderful to help others and to know who you want to be. I went through a stage where all I did was help my friends solve their drama and I neglected myself. Needless to say, it didn't turn out well for me (or for them). Everyone has a balancing point. Sometimes it's hard to find, but you'll be one step closer to finding peace once you do. I went shopping for myself too, Briganta. It was a gift from my husband for helping him out with an essay. Got some candles, sage, and a book. I love books.  _________________  Mod of Basics, Counsel of the Wise, and Healing Energy Requests Boards. PM me if you need anything. Check out my writing blog at http://bellforyourthoughts.tumblr.com/. Thanks for the support!
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dreamweaver200011
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Post subject: Re: Who I want to be Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 6:19 am |
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The need for companionship is definitely not selfish and I believe a person can be and do most anything they set their mind to be/do. Being like your great-grandfather sounds like a worthy person to emulate!
Many Blessings, Silver Firelite
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